—People don’t necessarily know what they want. That’s okay. Sometimes you don’t know! Even about things as fundamental as sexual orientation, it’s okay to identify as questioning. I think a lot of people feel pressure to be like “I’m a pansexual monogamous dom with a foot fetish!” when the actual answer is “I dunno. I think I might like feet.” You always have a right to be uncertain, to try things, to do something once and decide you hate it and never do it again, to go through phases, to change your mind.

On Good Consent, Part One (via sexisnottheenemy)

Definitely! If defining yourself a certain way makes you feel better then do it for you, but be willing to let those definitions change and also evolve. You never even have to end up anywhere, it’s all about feeling the best you can.

(via snowstorminjuly)